December 25, 2009
My husband has been diagnosed for 12 years and on at least 7 medications for it. He has had two affairs that I know of and I suspect one other. He is currently re-connected through a 40-year class reunion with his intimate girlfriend (boyfriend/girlfriend when she was 14 and he was 15 years old). She lives about 700 miles away. We have been married for 41 years and he insists on calling this girl just to keep in touch because she is 2 times divorced and needs a friend.
I have pleaded with him to stop calling her and he just hides his calls. I told him how it hurt when he called her and talked for 20-40 minutes, but he says I’m being ridiculous that she is just a friend. He has had her out to our house and has shown her where he works. Every time he calls her, and I catch him we have a huge fight. Yet he claims she is just a friend and I mean everything to him. If that is so, why is he so insistent on calling her?